This is a part of the Philippine Constitution which became a very popular quote for young Filipino lovers.
If you ask me it's true. You shouldn't assume anything unless there is proof.
A lot of conflicts arouse from assumptions. Assumptions which arouses from the minds of insecure people. This happens due to a person's lack of trust to the other. If a person assumes something about his/her partner, it only proves that his/her love is not strong enough to trust the person. Because for me:
LOVE = TRUST
You can never love a person whom you do not trust.
And you do not trust a person if you do not love that person.
It's just something to think about...
If you feel that you're love is strong enough to hold on to your partner, think again because if there is more doubt than trust, your feelings is very weak and may crash anytime soon.You have to learn to trust your partner despite all the doubts that pop up on your mind.
But of course you have to be open to each other. :)
Be careful though. Sometimes when a person avoids assumptions, there comes a time that he/she is already in state of denial. It's like avoiding negative thoughts even though it's already in front of him/her.
Take good care of each other and learn to trust.
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i like the thought...
ReplyDelete"Sometimes when a person avoids assumptions, there comes a time that he/she is already in state of denial. It's like avoiding negative thoughts even though it's already in front of him/her."
-jaymie :)
Haha well it's a bitter truth of life :D
ReplyDeleteIt's hard to say but there are people like that these days...Especially those young people who are madly in love.